The darkest of islands

It is an island unlike any other. It isn’t made of rock or volcanic sediment. It is an island composed of darkness. A lifeless mass of thick black that makes my soul and body shiver. An island where…I fear my worst nightmares will come true; a dark that messes with my mind and torments me with all the past that frightens.

What kind of darkness you ask? It is akin to sailing the sunny warm sea and coming upon what first appears to be an island in the distance. Drawing closer, I discover the air itself is a mass of thick black. Utter darkness. Everything about it warns, “Stay away!”

Despite all my efforts to avoid it, the gravity of the dark thick mass pulls me in. As the front part of my vessel breaks the plane of darkness, it disappears. I enter into the black. One moment I am enveloped in the brazen light of day, the next, plunged into utter darkness. Lost to all light and the outside world.

I am lost in utter physical darkness, but for me, it is also so much more.

This is no island where wishful dreams come true. It’s a nightmare. A prison. My imagination runs wild with fears and anxieties of all that can go wrong; my regrets and depressions loom large.

I am tormented by lurking demons, monsters, and dragons that spew terror. They fill the dark air I breathe with fear about the future and frustration about the past; both mix to make the worst of spells: hopelessness. Doing time there takes so much joy and energy out of me. When I am on the island I am less human, more animal-like. When I am in the dark, there is not much to do but sit with my racing thoughtsmany as dark as the darkness of night around me.

Their promises tempt me to secure my future by my lust, greed, and effort. “Go out and prove you are worth being loved! Look at how little you have done or experienced compared to others. People are losing interest in you, soon you’ll be useless and forgotten. You need to make yourself more attractive, successful, and popular in order to be loved.”

When these promises don’t materialize or meet expectations, dark emotions of anger, bitterness, resentment, disillusionment, jealousy, and revenge bleed inner darkness. This time the voices accuse. “Look at all the evil you are guilty of. You should be ashamed. You are so messed up, stuck in a vicious cycle of trying, failing, and trying again…you’ll never get out. You’re unlovable, so beyond the reach of forgiveness, grace, and hope. You are doomed. You might as well give up. You’d be better off dead.”

It is an island I am eager to get off of and have relief from. Nevertheless, I am often stuck there. This is my tale of struggle with chronic fatigue and mental illness—in particular, anxiety and depression.

Who dares enter my darkness?

The worst part of the dark island is how utterly alone and forgotten I feel. Why? Time on the dark island slows; my energies are absorbed in black thoughts. My capacity decreases and pace slows. I can’t keep up with life. I am cut off from the outside world; my friends are busy with their lives and have little margin to slow down and meet me where I am at.

Most don’t dare visit me when I am in the dark place, but prefer to keep a safe distance. I can sense their hesitancy, their cautious approach, and their fear of relating to me in my dark unknown shadows. I get it; I have to take some of the blame. Sometimes it’s my loner posture that pushes them away. I want to be alone. I don’t want anyone to see me in my darkened animal state. I feel loathsome. Darkness is my closest friend.

I also feel a social tension: social niceties dictate that people ask me how I am doing, but not everyone really wants to know. We all prefer the easy, normative answer of, “Not bad, you?” Yet, I feel that the darkness of my soul is hard to conceal. I want to be authentic, but by reading body language, I learn who to hide from and who to share with.

A few dare to enter

I am blessed to have a few patient and gracious friends that journey with me in the dark, as much as humanly possible. But there are dark things in me that no human friend can face or mend. Even my most trusted friends, who offer genuine concern and prayer, aren’t able to be present with me every time I am stuck on the dark island. Don’t get me wrong, I value their presence, prayers, and concern above any other human gift. But they cannot enter into the very depths of my darkness, or constantly be with me.

If my friends can’t meet my deepest needs for presence, support, healing, prayer, and comfort, where do I fulfill my longing for an even deeper spiritual connection and companionship? Shouldn’t it be God that fulfills these needs?

But if God is so caring, bold, and brave as to enter into my darkness, why don’t I often feel it? Why does he seem to leave me abandoned on the dark island so often? Can’t hedoesn’t he want totake me off this dark island permanently? I have expectations that he woulddoesn’t he have my best interest in mind?

But the silence and darkness often seem to be the only answer. It’s a dead, cold, silent, “No!” It doesn’t seem like God wants me to escape the dark island of my soul. Thus, the faith of my soul is weakened and wears thin. My cries for escape feel like they fall on deaf ears.

The hopelessness of my mental illness

Every effort and cry to avoid this dark island seems powerless. The gravity of the dark thick mass pulls me in; I panic and hear myself speaking haunting words that echo in my mind, “I’ll never get out! I’ll never get out!”

Day after day, I struggle on the dark island. With repeated failures to escape, disappointment sets in. I am anxious about being anxious. I am depressed about being depressed. I try to remind myself that God is powerful and good, and that he can yet help me escape the dark island, but the spiritual darkness is so thick and enduring that deep down I doubt.

At times my body is tense, pent up with frustration. I feel resentment and bitterness towards God for abandoning me; or worse, it feels like God’s wrath and anger is heavy upon me, destroying me. I can’t feel God’s power, love, care, or presence. I despair. The retinas of my soul are completely dilated, and yet I still cannot remember what spiritual light is like. I am harassed and haggard.

If God doesn’t rescue me, what hope do I have? I have tried and I cannot rescue myself; my friends also can’t rescue menow God? My hope of ever escaping the dark island is dying. In these darkest of moments, I often prefer to die; I just want the terrors of darkness to cease. I feel forever doomed, locked up in, and forgotten in darkness. My resolve to live in hope is withered, and even my best efforts only dress me in filthy rags of defeat. My faith is pale, cold, and weak.

It isn’t just the outside darkness of circumstance that gets me down; it is the deep darkness of despair inside me that is the worst. I assume the hope offered to me in Jesus is just his promise for when I die, but not here and now, not in the darkest of islands. In the dark God feels distant, detached, and powerless. But why?

After years of journeying back to the dark island, I’ve noticed my heart’s cry is changing. Instead of only asking God to get me off the dark island, more and more, I am asking him to walk with me in it.

Jesus was turned to the dark side

Does Jesus know what it is like to live in darkness? If he does, perhaps he above anyone else can bring comfort and hope. When I meditate on what Jesus willingly went through for me, I realize how little I know of darkness in comparison. Mine, albeit horrid, is nothing compared to what he went through.

Why did Jesus sweat drops of blood in the garden of Gethsemane? He was a man in severe physical and mental distress, becoming undone. He stared into the fiercest darkness and suffered from hematidrosis, a condition in which the blood vessels that feed the sweat glands rupture, causing them to discharge blood.

Why did Jesus scream in terror on the cross? He wasn’t crying out, “My hands, my hands, my feet, my feet!”; his cry was of one experiencing spiritual separation, darkness, deaththe worst that hell could unleash. He was utterly abandoned by God. He experienced utter hopelessness. He did everything right and everything went wrong for him.

His screaming words, “Why have you forsaken me?” reveal a soul in absolute anguish. God’s abandonment of him was real; mine is only apparent. Nevertheless, I am shocked to discover his cry is so much like mine. He experienced the depths of my darkness and abandonment, and more.

Jesus, the light of the world, was plunged, willingly, into the utter darkness of hell, and not just my hell. The darkness of my island is finite and limited. He took the cosmic darknessthe cumulation of the worst nightmares and terrors ever feared or experienced in historyupon himself.

On the cross Jesus was a man disintegrating; everything about him was falling apart. It is hard enough to see even a reenactment of his body being graphically disfigured, but ultimately, it was his soul and spirit in anguish. If Jesus persevered through that magnitude of darkness to secure my salvation, it assures me that he is willing to enter my darkness now; who knows better how to comfort me when I am on the darkest island of my soul than Jesus?

And not only does he walk with me in the darkness now, but I can be assured that one day he will make everything sad come untrue. Perhaps this is the saving grace of my mental illness. The struggle on the dark island makes me long for Jesus alone. No one else comforts, heals, or gives me hope like he does.

I can accept my failed hopes here because I have a future hope of a renewed, perfect body and life in the new heavens and earth, where there will be no dark island of my soul. I yearn for freedom from my darkness and fears in this life, but because Jesus walks with me now, in the darkness, I can endure, with patience, my times on the dark island. His hope is the quickening ray of light that promises that all good, and only good, is my ultimate destiny.

I cling to the hope that Jesus will one day rescue me from all darkness, but he also gives me the resolve to endure suffering while on the dark island of my soul.

 

*This piece was inspired by the character of Lord Rhoop in the CS Lewis book, “The Voyage of the Dawn Treader” and Tim Keller’s sermon “Heman’s Cry of Darkness” based on Psalm 88.

BY COREY PORTER


Corey Porter writes creative content for university students on multiple digital domains. His voice has been tempered by twenty four years of ministry experience, both as student and staff. His personal life is kept full serving his wife Peggy and three children in Vancouver. He enjoys sport, art and collectibles.

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